A Nigerian lady has recounted an awkward experience with a man after he allegedly expected her to go home with him following an expensive date.
Speaking during an appearance on the Whotpocast, she revealed that the man spent over ₦180,000 on their dinner date before driving towards his house instead of taking her home. She said she told him she was not going to his house that night.
Sharing her experience, she said:
“I once went on a date with a guy, and after dinner, he started driving me to his house instead of taking me home. I told him I wasn’t going to his house that night, so he pulled over and told me to order an Uber because he wouldn’t be able to drive me home.
He had spent over ₦180k on the date, and maybe that made him think I would automatically follow him home. My Uber hadn’t even arrived before he drove off.”
She suggested that the amount he spent may have influenced his expectations, but maintained that paying for the date did not mean she had to follow him home.
The lady’s account has sparked reactions online, with social media users debating whether spending heavily on a date should create any expectation of intimacy.
While some questioned the man’s decision to leave before her Uber arrived, others stressed the importance of respecting boundaries regardless of how much was spent.
The incident has further sparked conversations about dating expectations, personal boundaries and whether paying for a date should ever come with conditions.
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