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If I Were My Mother, I Would Have Married A Broke Man. My Mother Chose To Marry My Father; It Was Her Decision, Not Mine. Therefore, Men Should Stop Responding With Remarks Like “Is Your Father Rich?” Every Time A Woman Says She Will Not Marry A Broke Man – A Lady

A simple statement by a young lady has set social media on fire, with thousands of Nigerians arguing about marriage, money, and what women want in men.

The lady posted: “If I were my mother, I would have married a broke man. My mother chose to marry my father; it was her decision, not mine. Therefore, men should stop responding with remarks like ‘Is your father rich?’ every time a woman says she will not marry a broke man. Watch video here

The message, which started spreading widely on Sunday, July 13, 2026, has been shared by many big accounts and ordinary users. It is part of the ongoing talk about money and relationships in Nigeria.

Many people see the statement as a strong reply to men who always ask women about their father’s wealth when the women say they do not want to marry a poor man. The lady is reminding people that everyone’s mother made her own choice, and daughters should not be blamed or questioned for what their parents decided.